Being connected: families and communities

Wow… I’ve been quite neglectful of this blog. This must be what
happens to all the plants that come into my house.

I’ve been thinking lately about rituals and traditions. “Rites and
traditions” sounds pretty formal. I’ve been talking with families for
two weeks about how they celebrate during the winter season, which is
ripe with gatherings and events. It’s the holiday season after all.

The concept of rituals and traditions goes beyond just special
occasions although they are included here, too, like how you celebrate
holidays and birthdays or death. The every day rituals are also
important for making connections within the family, for feeling like
your part of a larger system of people who care about you. Rituals
build community and a sense of belonging.

Our smallest community is the family and/ or the group of people we
live with. What kinds of every day things help your family feel
connected?

Here’s your mission for reflection, if you choose to accept it:
How do you and your family build connections to your larger community?
How do you show your children the importance of being connected to
others, how to treat others well, and how to build relationships?

Coincidentally, today is the first day of Kwanzaa… I’ve been learning
more about Kwanzaa because it’s based on several of the same values
that I care about and may offer some rituals that help me feel
connected to my larger communities. The first principle of Kwanzaa is
Unity – to strive for unity in the family, community, nation, and
race. Wow. Right on target!