I'm not just trying to be nosey.

Things to consider during an evaluation/ consultation for a child:

The child.
The environment/ setting.
The person they are interacting with.
The interactions within, between, and among all the people who live around the child.

So, when I talk with you (the parents) about how things are going between you, how you work together to discipline the child, whether you still get to date each other, and the level of conflict in your home, don't take it personally. I am asking you because your child already knows.

Pic "borrowed" from: http://www.ehow.com/how_8468563_give-coparenting-seminar.html